Thursday, March 30, 2006

Why Is Sex The Mecca Of America's content?

The question that presents itself today is: Does sex really matter? We all fight temptation everyday, trying not to be sinful children of God. But when sex comes with so much extra baggage, who would want to run after it so eagerly? Not only does sex come with emotional hang-ups, it also comes with venereal diseases as well. For men, I can say the thrill does not seem to amount to the orgasm that a woman receives. Our orgasm are like 10 seconds of eternal bliss. We word hard to get to that point, while females on the other hand like to take it slower (some females).Look at it like this: Men are like microwaves and women are like ovens. One heats up fast, you eat it and it's done. Women take longer to heat up, causing more anticipation for the result. Are you getting me, or am I sounding like a food critic (to some degree)?
When sex is so powerful that a man who is "in love" with his wife (and gentlemen, there is a difference between in-love and love for) would risk throwing it all away for 5 minutes (sometimes shorter) of ecstasy, there has to be a line drawn in the sand of American's thinking. Why is sex so powerful?

Why can Beyonce receive more video plays and radio play than India.Arie? Why is it always physical before emotional? I know I'm asking a boatload of questions, but damnit, this is annoying me.

I wouldn't say that sex is the last thing I think of (as a man, I must admit, sex does cross my mind a lot), but it most definitely is not the first thing I think about. And if my wife stood by me and was there to support my dreams, goals and physically satisfied me, why cheat? Humans are so weak...

On to other news. I started my diet today at 7:00AM. By 8:00Am I was ordering two number 8's from McDonalds (no, I'm serious, I did).

But to close this blog, we, as humans, should have more self control and fight temptation... Love, peace and empathy to all. Write, inspire, learn and build upon knowledge.

-Sometimes my message escapes people's minds. It's as silent as the k in knowledge.

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

About Me, Terry Snipes

Welcome to my blog Love, Relationships and Life. These are some of the most important things in my life. I take pride in being somewhat phylisophical and I know that I over think a lot of situations. So, I figure I’ve learned a lot over the years and I am constantly thinking of new things, why not share them with others and let them share their experiences with me?

My name is Terry J. Snipes. I am a 22 year old male from Ohio. Here is a picture of me below:

I started blogging because I wanted to spread a message of love, self importance and just my thoughts and opinions on lots of different subjects. My first blog was through Yahoo! Geocites. It was designed very catchy but it was nothing that said anything important. I guess it was just me telling people what I did throughout the week. Hey, if you liked it, keep reading, if not, leave the damn page!

When I started this blog about 5 months ago I wanted to have a blog and express myself and I found the wonderful adsense. It was something that made my head spin. I am not only driven by money, but the fact that I could get paid for going through all of these true life experiences and share them with the world was thrilling.

I have a girlfriend who I have been with for about 2 years now. She is the most constant relationship that I have ever been in (and I’ve been in a lot). I enjoy her thoughts, smile, company and insight on subjects that I would thing horribly on. I like the fact that she reads my blogs because she can always give me her (a woman’s) point of view on the subject. But for the most part, I know women and I speak from the heart. Somehow I always hit the nail right on the head.

I thank anyone for stopping by my blog and browsing through. It means a lot to me that someone can find out some new information or look at a subject from a different point of view. If you have any suggestion feel free to comment and I will most definelely get back to you on the subject. Thanx again and I hope you experience wonderful love, relationships and life!

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Poems Archive

I Starve for You, My Queen

I Believe

Sacrament of Love


My Destiny

My Damn Everything

E-Mail Advice Archives

Re: Opinion- "Leave Britney Alone"

Re: I can't take this

Re: We have no time

Re: I'm a living atm machine

Re: Me or the dog!

Re: My boyfriend's dad feels me up

Re: I dreamt she was dead

E-mail Advice- "Husband wants to read while I sleep"

E-mail Advice- "He wont apologize"

E-mail Advice- "How do gays date?"

E-mail Advice- "I'm anal repellant"

E-mail Opinion- "Another deep discussion..."

E-mail Advice/Opinion- "Kissing/Sex"

E-mail Advice- "Not a homo"

E-mail Advice- "My husband wants to kill me"

E-mail Advice- "My man don't like my blow job"

E-mail Advice- "Cheating"

E-mail Advice- "Punch her in the Face!"

E-mail Advice- "I hate my parents. Why?"

E-mail Advice- "How do gays date?"

E-mail Follow-Up- "Cheating"

E-mail Follow-Up- "My husband wants to kill me"

Dating Advice Achives

R&R: Relationship and Recipes- Avoiding the Cheese!

Dating Websites

Clown Faces Are... Scary

Your Representative, and how they can get you into trouble!

So Many Damn Rules When It Comes To Dating

When Your Lover Dies... How To Deal

How To Love Yourself

What Do You Do When He/She Is Cheating? Get Out!

15 Tips For A Date... Men, This One's For You

10 Ways NOT TO Break Up With Your Mate

How to Flirt and Spark a Date

John Wesley and Date Night Taking Chances

Taking Chances, Revisited Dating... Tips?

The Love Subject: And Interview w/ Samantha Bell

How To Share Yourself Gifts In Relationships

The "Key" To A Stronger Relationship

How To Be Less Lonely

Six Tips To Flip People's Mind and Make Them Like You

Advice In the Form of a Rant

An Intro To Truth

Everybody is screaming, "I want love!" Screw love! A lot of you are wanting love from someone else and can’t seem to find love from yourself. This is pathetic. It’s a damn shame when we must be reminded to love ourselves and cherish the many qualities that we, as individuals, possess.

This blog was not created to give you a sugar-coated guide to relationships and building high self-esteem. I am designing this blog to aggressively show you how to become the wonderful person you are inside. This will most definitely translate to the outside, causing men (and women) to lay about your doorstep like stray cats on a hillbilly’s porch.

Keep in mind, that it is not my intention to seem rude, arrogant or ignorant to people’s concerns. I am more than willing to post any articles or comments that you have about a topic. In fact, I encourage response to these blog entries. I’ve made this blog to help those who need advice or encouragement in this blissful yet heartbreaking game called "love."

So, with that said, enjoy my tips, tricks and openness to share with you my highs and lows in regards to relationships and love. I will also have my cousin Asia Wright, contributing a few articles as well. But please don’t get it twisted, just because I am a man doesn’t mean I don’t know love from a woman’s point-of-view. Of course, I won’t hit the nail right on the head because I don’t have breast and a vagina, but that is why Asia will come in from time to time and add her two cents to the topics.

All in all, I hope you all enjoy, learn and feel better about yourselves, love and life.