Jealousy: The Green Eyed Monster

We've all seen the Green Eyed Monster. This, my friends, is jealousy. While it seems to be the thorn in everyone's side, could it be that jealousy is a sign of major love?

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What is jealousy?

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Jealousy comes across immediately as aggressiveness, self-doubt, and fear. And in actuality, that's what it is. Some people give expression to jealousy, pursuing their lovers with accusations and turning their lover's life into hell. But an even more difficult situation is when a person who is jealous keeps his or her feeling hidden, letting the torture reside inside. In this case, jealousy becomes more dangerous because the person doesn't have anyway to get it out. It's kinda like when you're constipated and it just kills you keeping it inside.

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Is there any way you can cope with this feeling?

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The best thing to do in regards to jealousy is to realize:

If your mate does not want to be with you they'll find a way to cheat or leave you.

I don't care how much to run around in a cheap Lil' Kim wig, large sunglasses and trench coat, trying to hide your identity while you spy, he's going to cheat. The thing that's left up to the jealous asshole is ending the relationship on a happy note.

Constantly accusing your mate of cheating will not make them want to stay with you. If you find out they've been cheating, confront it and move on. People need to stop thinking that they can't live without an individual. Trust me, you can.

I've been burned a many times by cheaters, and I've realized that once you see the signs, confront it, if it's proven, move on. Neither one of you has the time to constantly be jealous and wonder where your mate is 24/7, and if you do you really need to get a LIFE.

Jennifer Hudson Grabs Oscar and Loves Every Minute of It

So Jennifer Hudson won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actress. I had to be one of the first to post on this wonderful issue. This proves that through passion and determination anyone can succeed.

The Dreamgirls diva thanked God twice, and she should have. Lord knows she worked hard to get where she is today.

Best known for her role as Effie White in the 2006 film version of the Broadway musical Dreamgirls, vocalist/actress Jennifer Hudson was first brought to the public's attention while a contestant on the third season of the reality show vocal competition American Idol. Born in 1981 in Chicago, IL, Hudson sang from a young age, first performing in her church. Various talent shows and school musical productions followed until she eventually secured a role in a local Chicago production of the musical Big River. Prior to auditioning for American Idol, Hudson also sang professionally while working on the Disney Wonder cruise ship.

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Besides the usual bore of the Academy Awards, Ellen was extremely funny in her own special way. And those shadow people behind the screen was a real treat...

I was overly excited that Martin Scorsese won the oscar for Best Director, and The Departed won for the Best Picture! One of my favorite directors.

Until the next post, much LOVE, PEACE AND EMPATHY!

CONGRATS, JENNIFER!!!!!

Hooker Dates Jackass, Playa, and Liar!

When it comes to dating, this new generation likes to try out 2, 3, maybe even 4 individuals at one time. Almost like receiving a 30-day risk free trial run.

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How can you get to know someone personally enough if you're dating more than one person? And if you do pick one person, is it fair to the individuals you've led on?

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My friend, Hooker, decided she wanted to date Playa, Jackass, and Liar all at the same time. She went to places with each one:

Playa- Deutsch Island

Jackass- Hot Carl Restaurant

Liar- Pearl Necklace Jewelers

All three of these guys had skeletons in his closet.

-Playa had six girlfriends, f***ed lambs (as well as his cousin, Michael). He made over 60k a year from (drugs?) God knows what.

-Jackass had low self-esteem because his older brother, Pro Lawyer, was always praised by family and friends, yet he was looked down on because he had some stupid idea about making money online blogging (Google, Yahoo!, Myspace, Plenty of Fish, Darren Rowse, Steve Pavlina... the idea of making money online, yeah, right!).

-Liar told... Well,, this is self explanatory, huh? But Liar made 100k a year as a successful broker (TD.GAD.AY! was asked not to disclose this information).

So who did Hooker choose? Liar. Because se didn't get to know Jackass better, she couldn't find out that he's never cheated on any woman he's been with, he's not gay, a pedophiliac, and his online blogging community idea nets him about 50k every two months!

Instead, she found out that Liar's favorite book was that crap O.J. wrote about how he would kill his wife, he has a fisting porn fetish, and wants to try it out on her! Oh, and he cheated on her with the entire cast of Sex in the City... Literally every single member (crew and cast... that are gay and a woman).

Conclusion

Stick to one date, people. In the first week, date maybe 2 people at the same time, but don't let it go longer than that. With all the STDs spreading like crazy, it's best to keep it simple.

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Wanna Know: Guys are slobs

I’m surprised that someone e-mailed me a Wanna Know rant already. I just launched the reader-active series yesterday. Most of my advice entries where sent from my other website and had been sitting for weeks. So here is the first Wanna Know Rant by Karol Stevens:

“Guys are such slobs. I don’t know why they expect so much from females when they walk around like their beer-belly asses don’t stink. A guy I was with about a week ago had the damn nerve to ask me to pay more attention to the stubble near my knee. Near my knee! Who the fuck cares? And if I wanted to be overly critical like his ass I could have told him to shave off half of his back hair. I love guys, but sometimes they make me sick. Sick Sick sick.”

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