3 Tips To Avoid Quick Loan Installments & saying, "I love you" Too Fast!

--> You wouldn't get loan installments in a hurry, why say, "I love you" too fast, as well?

When it comes to love, or loan installments, we don't want to rush; for example, someone who were to say, "I love you," too fast. Most times, if we're "saying I love you too fast" we feel as though we may get ourselves into trouble This is understandable, after all, we want to make sure our feelings are based on even a small level of strong foundation. Here are 3 tips to help you know when your boy toy or the girl of your dreams may just be saying those three words too fast.

When Will We Ascend?

There comes a time when a person needs to be quick to listen and slow to speak. We don’t realize just how affected our spirits are when we spread poison from our mouths.

Why do people feel the need to talk about things, and they don’t even know all of the angles? If we can pull ourselves away from the self and start thinking about the feelings of others, instead of what they think about us, we would be okay. This would be a not-so-bad country, in my opinion. However, we do have the strong bonding chains of individualism holding us to the ground. When will we ever ascend, maybe not reaching the firmament, but at least the clouds….?

When?

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Jealousy: The Green Eyed Monster

We've all seen the Green Eyed Monster. This, my friends, is jealousy. While it seems to be the thorn in everyone's side, could it be that jealousy is a sign of major love?

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What is jealousy?

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Jealousy comes across immediately as aggressiveness, self-doubt, and fear. And in actuality, that's what it is. Some people give expression to jealousy, pursuing their lovers with accusations and turning their lover's life into hell. But an even more difficult situation is when a person who is jealous keeps his or her feeling hidden, letting the torture reside inside. In this case, jealousy becomes more dangerous because the person doesn't have anyway to get it out. It's kinda like when you're constipated and it just kills you keeping it inside.

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Is there any way you can cope with this feeling?

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The best thing to do in regards to jealousy is to realize:

If your mate does not want to be with you they'll find a way to cheat or leave you.

I don't care how much to run around in a cheap Lil' Kim wig, large sunglasses and trench coat, trying to hide your identity while you spy, he's going to cheat. The thing that's left up to the jealous asshole is ending the relationship on a happy note.

Constantly accusing your mate of cheating will not make them want to stay with you. If you find out they've been cheating, confront it and move on. People need to stop thinking that they can't live without an individual. Trust me, you can.

I've been burned a many times by cheaters, and I've realized that once you see the signs, confront it, if it's proven, move on. Neither one of you has the time to constantly be jealous and wonder where your mate is 24/7, and if you do you really need to get a LIFE.

Jennifer Hudson Grabs Oscar and Loves Every Minute of It

So Jennifer Hudson won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actress. I had to be one of the first to post on this wonderful issue. This proves that through passion and determination anyone can succeed.

The Dreamgirls diva thanked God twice, and she should have. Lord knows she worked hard to get where she is today.

Best known for her role as Effie White in the 2006 film version of the Broadway musical Dreamgirls, vocalist/actress Jennifer Hudson was first brought to the public's attention while a contestant on the third season of the reality show vocal competition American Idol. Born in 1981 in Chicago, IL, Hudson sang from a young age, first performing in her church. Various talent shows and school musical productions followed until she eventually secured a role in a local Chicago production of the musical Big River. Prior to auditioning for American Idol, Hudson also sang professionally while working on the Disney Wonder cruise ship.

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Besides the usual bore of the Academy Awards, Ellen was extremely funny in her own special way. And those shadow people behind the screen was a real treat...

I was overly excited that Martin Scorsese won the oscar for Best Director, and The Departed won for the Best Picture! One of my favorite directors.

Until the next post, much LOVE, PEACE AND EMPATHY!

CONGRATS, JENNIFER!!!!!

Hooker Dates Jackass, Playa, and Liar!

When it comes to dating, this new generation likes to try out 2, 3, maybe even 4 individuals at one time. Almost like receiving a 30-day risk free trial run.

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How can you get to know someone personally enough if you're dating more than one person? And if you do pick one person, is it fair to the individuals you've led on?

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My friend, Hooker, decided she wanted to date Playa, Jackass, and Liar all at the same time. She went to places with each one:

Playa- Deutsch Island

Jackass- Hot Carl Restaurant

Liar- Pearl Necklace Jewelers

All three of these guys had skeletons in his closet.

-Playa had six girlfriends, f***ed lambs (as well as his cousin, Michael). He made over 60k a year from (drugs?) God knows what.

-Jackass had low self-esteem because his older brother, Pro Lawyer, was always praised by family and friends, yet he was looked down on because he had some stupid idea about making money online blogging (Google, Yahoo!, Myspace, Plenty of Fish, Darren Rowse, Steve Pavlina... the idea of making money online, yeah, right!).

-Liar told... Well,, this is self explanatory, huh? But Liar made 100k a year as a successful broker (TD.GAD.AY! was asked not to disclose this information).

So who did Hooker choose? Liar. Because se didn't get to know Jackass better, she couldn't find out that he's never cheated on any woman he's been with, he's not gay, a pedophiliac, and his online blogging community idea nets him about 50k every two months!

Instead, she found out that Liar's favorite book was that crap O.J. wrote about how he would kill his wife, he has a fisting porn fetish, and wants to try it out on her! Oh, and he cheated on her with the entire cast of Sex in the City... Literally every single member (crew and cast... that are gay and a woman).

Conclusion

Stick to one date, people. In the first week, date maybe 2 people at the same time, but don't let it go longer than that. With all the STDs spreading like crazy, it's best to keep it simple.

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Re: Opinion- "Leave Britney Alone"

Dear Trew,

I am so tired of hearing stories about Britney Spears. Everyone is making her seem like she is crazy, but maybe her heart is just broken. I read you blog daily and I expected more of you. Please, stop flashing her pain across the television and Internet. Just let her grieve.

Anonymous
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Dear Anonymous

This is life, Sweetheart. I've had my soul burned and my heart spat on plenty of times. The news traveled around the job. I came to work in all black, head down and feeling like shit. People still continued to talk.

I also don't understand how you expect more from me. This website is about LOVE, RELATIONSHIPS and LIFE. That's what I write about. This mess with Britney... You guessed it. It encompasses all of those things I labeled in all caps above.

Chill out. I'm not posting anything that has not been posted on a million other websites by now. But for the sake of happiness, I won't post another blog about Britney Spears... for the next 24 hours!

-Trew Life

Britneys A Woman Scorned!

"Britney went to Kevin's house in the San Fernando Valley last night around 7 pm and rang the bell at his gate three times with no answer. She was so frustrated that when her assistant stopped the car, Britney grabbed an umbrella and went after our photographers," the paparazzi agency X17 said.

Can you see that damn picture above this post? Look at it for a moment. Okay, now look at this:
Who would have thought she would change so drastically. This proves that some child stars shouldn't have been stars in the first place. Is all of this in regards to love gone bad. In my previous post Britney Breaks Down Because of Love I threw the logic around that she went crazy from being dumped. And I know plenty females who do some while things where "let go" by a boyfriend or husband.

But there is a happy ending to this story Gadies and Lentlemen. When Britney rang at Kevin's, he was inside the damn house with the babies. He left thirty minutes later and headed to the couple's former Malibu's Serra Retreat where Britney was waiting.

Its said that she calmed herself down enough and perhaps made a deal with Kevin regarding Jayden and Sean because late last night, Britney went back to Promises rehab center. And then Kevin's emergency hearing today was cancelled.

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Terry is Back... And So Is TD.GAD.AY

Terry went on a far away trip, maybe to pilgrimage in Aruba or someplace, but its evident he was not around for a while. Oh yes, blogs were popping up occasionally by him, but he was lost in a bucket of common prose, and stranded on No Inspiration Road.

What is the difference from me now and me then? Nothing. Why the hell was I speaking in third person? Who gives a damn?

I want you all to be aware of TD.GAD.AY. This is almost an everyday repeatable affirmation that is to be sung while you bang your husband or wife. It is to be yelled across telephone lines and through cell phones to friends, boyfriends, girlfriends and family members.

If you don’t know what the acronym means, just click on the word TD.GAD.AY.

R&R: Relationship and Recipes- Avoiding the Cheese!

Don’t you hate to go to a club or bar and have the most unattractive man hitting on you? Okay, well, usually the man isn’t physically unattractive, but his lines are. So many times women get caught at a bar with a guy named Rich who’s breath smells like Vodka and he wrecks of some cheap smelling after-shave.

The thing that will make a woman the most uncomfortable is the fact that the guy’s lines are so damn corny. It’s like, if you want me to be interested then please act natural. The one exception I can see being made in this situation is when a man is mocking other men who do the cheesy line stuff. Then its okay to laugh and pay a little more attention. But then they are left in more of a worse position than the cheesy guy. Because while the cheesy guy is being honestly cheesy, the mocking guy could be just as cheesy and made fun of someone who he is 65% like anyway.

To avoid going through this type of torture always make sure that you spark up a small 1 minute conversation with the bartender and the guy next to you. Even if the guy is not your type, make sure that you let him know you just want to talk. This is a small way at keeping the timid cheesy guys at bay.

Next, if a guy sits next to you and you can read the signs of a cheese, still give them the benefit of the doubt. But once he turns to you and says the line... something like, “I like you. You’re just like me. When I R.S.V.P. to a party, I make it my job to cum,” and smiles, then you know it’s time to cross one leg over the other, making sure your buttocks is facing him but not giving him too much to make him think you want him to cop a feel.

If this technique does not work and he continues to spit the awful lines at you, just politely touch the guy’s shoulder who you were initially talking to. Once you do this, the guy will be away from you in 2.5 seconds.

And we all know that if this doesn’t work it’s best to grab your purse and get the hell out of dodge. I normally wouldn’t suggest that anyone stop having a good time because of a nuisance. But the questions is: would you keep running in a park if you heard gunshots? No, you’d get the hell out of the way and say, “I’ll jog another time.” Same thought process here.

Below I have listed a recipe for- you guessed it- Cheese Ham Strata. Until the next time I post, watch out for the “cheese.”

Cheese Ham Strata

8 slices white bread
2 c. cheddar cheese, grated
3 c. buttermilk
4 eggs, beaten2 tsp Worcestershire sauce
3/4 tsp dry mustard
½ teaspoon salt
1/8 teaspoon pepper
½ c. sliced ham, chopped

Alternate buttered layers of bread, cheese, and ham in a greased baking dish, ending with cheese on top. Mix remaining ingredients and pour over layers. Allow to stand one hour in refrigerator. Bake at 325 degrees Fahrenheit for 50 to 60 minutes or until golden brown on top. Cut into squares and serve.

Britney Breaks Down Because of Love

Britney Spears has become a fixture on the nightclub circuit since her split in November from her then husband, Kevin Federline, a former backup dancer.

We all know about her cutting session, and we'll sympathize with her and say she's gotten a makeover (yeah... Makeover). But we all know it seems as if she'd having a nervous breakdown.

In case you didn't hear about the head shaving incident- if you have and never want to hear about it again, no problem just skip on to the next blog entry. I have more topics to browse through- here it is:

Spears' G.I. Jane-like Friday night began in the salon of Esther Tognozzi, who told the T.V. gossip show "Extra" that the beautician was afraid to shave Spears' head in case she was sued for ruining the singer's image.

After Tognozzi protested that Spears was maybe being "hormonal" and would feel differently the next day, Spears coolly "grabbed the buzzer and started shaving her own hair off. ... I just cleaned it up when she was done with it," she said.

Did her divorce has something to do with these wild antics? The transformation came on the same day People magazine and other entertainment media reported that Spears recently entered a rehabilitation center in the Caribbean island of Antigua and checked out a day later. But, as usual, the reports were denied by Spears' representatives.

It's amazing to see an individual mentally breakdown from love gone bad. Though I've never known anyone personally who shaved off their hair when they've been DUMPED, I've seen some crazy reactive actions from people.

And don't bother trying to go to the singer's website, it's closed down for the moment. Hopefully it's receiving a makeover like the former mouseketeer.

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Dating Websites

I have been seeing so many dating websites popping up over the Internet, and I can't believe at one time I wanted one. It seems so damn hard to climb to the top of ALL the dating websites out there like Match.com, American Singles, and eHarmony. And even though Myspace is a friend/networking website, it acts like a dating website as well. This conglomerate is hard to go head up with- not that I'd try.

If I were going to start a dating/networking website, what would you like it to have?

DL Midget Pumpers and Carpet Feasters

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A crazy rant about nothing in particular

Re: I cant take this

Dear Trew,

I have been very depressed lately. Some times I feel like just killing myself. I know I shouldn't think like this, but times seem so hard. I just lost my job, my boyfriend of six months has completely stopped calling me, and I feel things are over. I'm trying to hold out but I dont think I can. Why does it hurt so bad?

Lonely
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Dear Lonely,

It hurts so bad because it's LIFE! That is what life is: PAIN. Get use to it. We were not put on this earth to live overly comfortable lives. Even people with lots of money have to worry about family members and friends with emotional problems that drive them crazy.

Hell, look at Anna Nichole, for instance.

Life is not going to always be fun and games. Its best to live through the hard times so that you can help someone else who's going through the same thing by letting them know you made it.

I went through having my car break down, get fired, and separated from the female I was living with. On top of that, one of my best friends died. It was hard to wake up in the morning, but I never thought about giving up. I didn't because I knew I could help someone like you in the future.

Keep your head up and send me a message to lrl.advice@hotmail.com so that we can exchange numbers and I can chat with you. If things are really dragging you down, please seek a psychologist or a psychiatrist to help you get through.

Trew Life

Tyler Perry's Daddy's Little Girls gives love!

Daddy's Little Girls, by Tyler Perry, was pretty decent. Of course, I probably wouldn't spend $9.50 to watch the movie again, I would most definitely buy it on DVD.

Tyler Perry is flexing his movie making muscles more and more, or he's trying to, at least. I suppose it's not all together easy to transfer from stage production to screen productions, but he's working it out.

Now you may ask, what does Daddy's Little Girls have to do with love? Tyler Perry delivers a likable odd-couple romance between the lead characters Julia- a hotshot Atlanta lawyer- and Monty- the nice guy mechanic- played by Idris Elba and Gabrielle Union.

They meet when he takes a part-time job as her driver. The tension begins when he starts humming and playing the radio. Before she has a chance to fire him, a cell phone sends him dashing to the hospital to find out what happened to his kids. She has to come along for the ride.

But its not the love between the two leads thats so astounding. Its the love between the father and his three daughters that make the movie so endearing.

With so many African American men dubbed as low-lifes, uneducated, and far from motivated to do anything with themselves, this movie is a refreshing look into responsibility because of love and not obligation.

The story has a pretty good plot. It would have been a better plot for a stage production, but this works on the silver screen. Check this out and let me know what you think by leaving a comment.

Daddy's
Little Girls

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Re: We have no time

Dear Trew,

When it comes to me and my husband he’s always off on the road for business and I am trying to start a home business. The children are always at school, with their friends or at after school functions. It seems like I don’t know my family any more. What can I do to help change this?

Kelly D.
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Dear Kelly,

Now, Kelly, how do you expect to have a relationship without interaction? In case you didn’t realize, that was a rhetorical question. It can’t be done. This is one of the reasons why most of those celebrity marriages fail: they have no time to devote to one another.

Just the same as you making sure you don’t spend too much time away from you spouse, you also don’t want to be up under them 24/7. I would personally be like, “Chick, take a break, a nap, or something, please!” Yes, we are bonded by marriage (supposedly), but that doesn’t mean that you’ve got to be Siamese twins.

Set up a routine with one another so that you schedule events around your intermediate family, and not work. When it comes down to work or family, which one is more important? If you businesses fail, family will be there. If your family suffers, your business will to, trust me.

Write me back and let me know what you come up with, and thanks for sending in the question.

-Trew Life

Britney Wants Justin Back. WTF!

Here comes the subject of Britney Spears... again. What the hell is going on with HER!?

After screwing things up the first time, she went off and did her thing while Justin was with Cameron Diaz. He has been romantically linked to Scarlett Johansson and Jessica Biel as well. In this time the pop celebrity dated Isaac Cohen apparently in attempt to make Justin jealous.

Apparently Britney has been trying to call Justin Timberlake, TMZ sources revealed that Justin is not interested in being with Britney again. And can you blame him?

What a year Ms. Spears has been having so far. First the head shaving thing, and now she's running back to Justin for a "second chance." And if she was his first love, and Cameron Diaz is out of the picture, I think he might give it a chance. What do you think?

Who Love You, Baby?

Who loves you, baby? Who supports your dreams, hopes, desires and goal? If you can’t answer this, you’re in trouble. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t believe that women (or men) need someone in their life to be secure, but truth of the matter is: when we have supporters, they help us cope.

Leave a comment stating who your supporters are and how they support you. The next post will be an assessment test telling you what type of individual you are. Filling it out can help you discover what type of personality you have and who is compatible with you.

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Your Representative, and how they can get you into trouble!

When going out on a first date, or even an interview, lots of us introduce our representatives. You might ask yourself, “Who is my representative?” Well, I’ll be more than happy to tell you.

Representative- your alter ego, the personality that swoops in when it’s time to impress someone. This representative will laugh at jokes you’d normally be stoned faced at. This representative could give a damn about The Apprentice, but likes the show when getting to know that special someone.

Okay, the problem with our representatives is that while they give a wonderful first impression, they are not fully you. We all need to know how to put our representatives on hold and show a potential candidate (boyfriend/girlfriend) the real us. Do this and relationships should last a lot longer than what they last.